Marriage is not an easy thing. Getting married may finish within a week maximum, with some events. But living happily with your life partner for life long is not that much easy task. You have to face more struggles, misunderstandings, acceptance and more in Married life! So choosing your life partner is always a big & great task. You should concentrate on that more to live a happy life than living your life like hell without any happiness only because of the wrong decisions. Getting divorce also not an easy task now a days! So plan properly & live happily!
Don't fall for their beautiness & money! Fall for their character & good nature! In the start, it maybe happy to live with the money. But when the life passes day by day, your partner may start to show their real face! At that time you will really feel that, life partner's good character is much important than that money & beauty! Misunderstandings will clash your happy life..
Don't be suspicious minded with their character! Don't overlook with your life partner's past when they are really good! Accept them with fresh minded. If you have suspect mentality with their character, then it leads to worst situations. So, be generous minded & accept them happily. Suspicion in marriage life is a biggest disease! And it will ruin your valuable life!
Accept them who loves you! You may love someone, but they may not love you. Some other person may love you, but you may not love them. In fact, life will be more beautiful when you marry a person who loves you! Take all options & select a best from those only who loves you! Give them life, then they will care you for lifelong! I'm damn sure about it!
Show your complete ability & transparency! Convey them what are all the best that can be done by you after marriage! Because, they may expect more from you. If you can't manage to give those needed things after marriage, then it will make a gap between your relationship. So, tell them about all your abilities & transparent backup. When you can make them clear in this, then they will travel with you accordingly.
Discuss about bad situations too! Don't always discuss about your upcoming life's beautiful moments & romance portions. As a good upcoming couple, you both should discuss about your life's struggles, bad situations & some other difficulties also! 80% of couples are failing to do this! When you will discuss this, then that seriousness will start from before marriage itself. So, after marriage when that discussed difficulty comes, then you both can cross that situation without hassles! Be matured & react matured!
Actually breakup is a beautiful option! You have to know about your life partner's desires, passions and everything! So before marriage, you have to be close with them to know about all. Sometimes, thoughts & wavelengths may get conflict between you both. In fact, Some characters shouldn't live together at any cost! So, know everything about your partner before marriage. If you both feel that, it's not healthy to continue further, then don't hesitate to breakup your relationship mutually! Just get a good life than getting worried!
Understanding is everything in life. So learn to live a life with deep understanding!